Hurting me now.. rooting for the future you..

Baby m gonna go higher and higher. .
If you wanna settle low, it’s your desire. ..

The barrier you’ve been pressing at..
I know you’ve once been on the other side of that. .

Remember this and never forget. ..
Even if you’ll want, well you won’t be able to do that. .

You’ll have a crave and with time it’ll grow..
You may notice it now, but it’ll show. .

Time’s gonna dig in it’s reel..
And I can see there’ll be no heal..

But I ain’t at all like that..
I’m a humanitarian,I wish you all the best..

You can’t see what you missing at..
This side its glorious and holy, the side am at..

Baby it’s not me, its you, it’s always been you..
Hurting me now and rooting for the future you..

-Prince

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Make peace with yourself..

Nothing complicated.. as simple as the title is.. yes, absolutely, that’s exactly what I want to say.. to myself.. to everyone reading this..

It applies to every single person who is focused and knows exactly what they’re looking from life.. acknowledge the fact that you’re aware.. many people are just living it.. without any focus point… just for the sake of it.. many people don’t know what their goal is and they’re confused.. at-least the best part in our case is that we know where we wanna be and what all we gotta do to be there… although we’re progressing slowly.. but aren’t things happening exactly the way you wanted them to be… may be not at this point.. but at some-point earlier in life..?

Priorities change from time-to-time so do likings.. but remember, once you focus on something and start moving towards it, keep this in mind, assimilate it that it takes time and you can’t change your targets all of a sudden, you’ll get the next stuff post the one you’re reaching for.. may be on the way.. but you never know.. in such cases.. when you find life moving slowly or with uncertainty.. the first thing to do is to Make Peace With Yourself!!

Absolutely, and its the best thing to do.. cause its life which controls the flow.. things will happen but remember no-one controls time.. at-least not us..you can’t rush into things, everything has its pace, all you can do is we can pursue some hit-and-trials to navigate through it.. one shouldn’t be negative about it… shouldn’t victimize thy-selves during such time.. cause this is the time when you need to hold faith in your-self and the happenings around you to get through. Take your mind off the process for a while.. until you see the next sign-board, have fun.. go on a trip.. go shopping.. but just not be down.. cause things are working and happening the way we want.. we just need to be patient enough for it to happen on its own once we have put in every effort we can.

Keep rocking!!

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Emotional Balance.. vouch for it.

Are you holding on to a lot of rage? are you shopping a lot(unnecessarily)? do you keep joking and laughing in Public, but, the moment you go alone you feel there’s nothing in life? its’ all boring and not interesting at all..

Well, if you answer yes to any of the above questions, its time, you start reflecting on your current priorities and course of action and most important course correction towards what upon reflection comes out to be ‘what you really want?’

Honestly, if you stand right besides yourself on this (yeah I know that sounds tossy, will post that sometime as to how could one be right besides oneself), if you truthfully reflect on the on-goings in your life, you’ll get the correct answer to what is it that’ll make you happy, the answer to upon attaining what you’ll really be fulfilled.

Of-course we’re humans and its human nature to always want more but the true purpose or say the true desire for someone over a period of time is just one.

Now, coming back to the question content… Rage, you hold on to it only when there have been cases where you felt you should have gone into an argument to the level other person has and beat ‘em down so hard that they never ever try to come up against you.. so you don’t do that at that moment, but later when you’re alone you crib saying all that you feel you should have at that moment.

Shopping a lot unnecessarily, trying to always look good on the outside, buying more and more clothes/accessories, expensive ones, sometimes purely wasting money you earn hard and spend every single penny you have.. its’ a sign of not being emotionally fulfilled, cause being able to buy things which a comparative set of people not be able to gives you a foul boost of a feeling that says you have control over your life.. however, you have that vacant space inside of you.. which can only be treated with companionship and nothing else..

We run behind few things in life.. we call ‘em career goals, but, what makes us really happy in life is not only just achieving your career goals but also having a happy personal life… having a true connection with your own self.. being contented.. you need to have settled all the basics, that’s what will strengthen the foundations and bring in emotional balance.. always remember.. you’ve a commitment to yourself to be happy, so vouch for it!!! :)

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Hungry for Success?? Go for it!!

Ever felt that you’re somewhat accomplished but still hungry for success? you thought if you’d reach here you won’t be looking for more but you are? hunger for more? and when you get that you want even more?

Let me tell you that’s your passion for self realization, that’s a state where you know your capabilities and that you can reach far ahead than where you are right now.. never let that zeal go anywhere.. fuel it.

Nothing is ever enough and it should be per me, I know there are theories,scriptures around satisfaction, but I’ll tell you what.. that is just help yourself feel happy about your achievements and about celebrating them.. I’ll say.. do that.. but still be looking for evolution.. how better could you more be..? what are the areas you need to improve upon? in personal life, professional life, your career, your health, your physical fitness, your brain activity, your judgement acumen, your human nature.. everything.. almost everything.. improving upon these consistently is the actual way to self realization.. I know run behind one a lot, we loose focus on other aspects, I’m no different.. am facing this..am aware of that.. but all I want to say is.. if possible.. try and keep the balance.. at-least in a few.. Keep rocking.

Remember.. its a process of continuous evolution! :)

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365 days of Awesomeness!!

The whole world celebrated the start of a new Year.. well the larger part of the world I should say.. ;)

New year resolutions.. everybody makes,largely break.. some live upto it.. a larger chunk of us couldn’t.. do you know,why? cause we don’t commit to it as the if its the necessity of are being to make that happen, cause we don’t commit to making it happen for our livelihood… people go depressed cause things don’t turn out they want ‘em too.. but have you ever noticed it largely cause may be we give up too soon.. our doubt ourselves? How about not taking no for an answer for what we truly want? How about consistently pursuing towards what we commit to be a necessary molding factor of the every next minute we spend.. how about consistently embarking on sequence of actions.. riding towards the goal.

Lets’ pledge to our own selves for what we truly are missing at this point.. love.. money… or absolutely anything to be the reason we’re breathing for.. to keep a positively overwhelmed head about and consistently hitting to achieve it.. pure 365 days of Awesomeness.. and I promise to you.. that if you or I live upto it.. being awesome will be part of our character.. I’m on it.. are you? :) B-)

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Change is new.. New is always better!

Well, we all have spent a considerable time in particularly monotonous phases.. be those rythmatic , be those exaggerated, be those lethargous, be those presumptuous, be those tiring, be those out of rage.. but just cause we know how we did in those moments, just cause we already know the worst or best it was or could have been.. doesn’t mean you run away from the new.. doesn’t mean you end up in the comforter that’s like a decade old, all torn down by time, carries spots..  or maybe per se is as is when you got it and is just hanging around still, doesn’t mean you don’t get a new one.. anything new, sure is, unknown, maybe scary to a few, but its totally worth it to keep visiting new places, to keep experiencing new things, so that you get to know more of what lies inside the depth of yourself, so that you know more of what you are and could be or want to be.

We do run-away at times.. but it certainly ain’t advisable to do so..Its’ always good to challenge yourselves. The future may sound scary to a few/maybe taking away our comfort for a while, until we adapt to it or settle down in the new setting.. but you can’t just run back into the past cause its familiar..although its tempting, but, its’ a mistake! Its’ a mistake to let go of the opportunity to discover something new.. and more importantly.. to discover something new of yourself. So, remember.. Change is new and New is always better!!

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Ever wondered.. What am I doing???

Happens about quite a lot of times? or may be once in a decade? but, once it’s on.. it gets hard to push it? Well its a sign.. its a sign of a huge change.. waiting around the corner, on the film being rolled over a projector..

There come phases and times which contain a couple of these phases.. times when you don’t know the way forward.. when you don’t have a pivot to direct the journey to.. times when you go shopping.. when you keep shopping about every weekend.. or per se.. you watch television series.. seasons back to back.. crossing the days just lethargically passing it.. or may be working on the tasks for the day at work.. coming back home crashing and getting back to the work place all over again.. now there’re two choices.. you wanna keep this going or you wanna run towards the next pivot..?? take a leap forward?? but may be for some reason.. you’re still figuring what it has to be..? or may be in the back of your head.. you roughly know what you gotta do and there’s a certain timeline to it, which you’ve to stick to.. It’s mostly the later.. is what you’re going through when you’re in the middle of these phases or chain of phases per se..

In order to live through it.. there’re two ways.. trust me I’m not gonna say ‘survive through it’, cause these are the most laziest parts of our lives.. maybe you’ve ride on you preserved energy pools or should I say ride off your accumulated energy.. but that’s only for a temporary task at work but nothing else.. and tell you what.. time flies!

So yeah.. back to point.. there’re two ways to live through these times.. either you flow with the water.. (I was gonna say blow with the air.. but that’d would have tickled some bones.. XD ), so.. you either go with the flow.. or put some short target.. join a swim class.. or the gym? or a sports club.. or go jogging? or read a book(I’ve been reading a lot these days.. not the ones that’d help me boost the next big leap.. but a hell lot of different stuff.. more on that later..) or may be a language course? or may be a certification you wanted to do?

Idea is either you just sit back relax and charge your energy levels back up.. or you channelize it on learning/achieving something else in that short span.. that not only keeps you consistent in the game.. but also adds on to your usps/talents.

Choice is yours.. I do a mix of both.. :)

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