At times in life, their are gaps in relationships and at times you’re way to close to someone and when I say someone I not only mean your special one, but it could be any of your friends or all of ’em at different points of time, one at one, the other one at another, but then there are these times, when you talk to a near one and they lie to you. We’ve been together so long, won’t we know that the person is lying??
Its that time in a relationship when it hurts the most, It simply feels like as if we’re asking to ourselves “was I not even worth the truth”, okay, finding it hard to get, lets put it this way, when we meet a stranger and the person doesn’t seem trust-worthy, what do we do?
Every single question that the stranger asks, we lie to it. So, If you’ve been knowing someone for long and all of a sudden you lie to ’em, can you even imagine how’d they feel??
Alright, I take it, you lied coz you thought the truth would hurt ’em, but tell you what, the lie would hurt ’em more than the truth, so always stick to the truth, they may feel bad for a while, but the honesty strengthens the relation. Be honest to the people, let them live in a happy state knowing that they’ve earned the truth.